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Becoming the Pause in a World That Wants Your Anger anger anxiety boundaries emotional regulation pause resilience rest stress management Jan 19, 2026

 

January 2026 Reflections

When I returned to work after the holidays this January, I felt roiled. That’s the only word that truly fits.

The news has felt relentless. Stories out of Iran stirred grief and helplessness. Reports from Venezuela and Greenland added to the weight. And then the scenes ...

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How to Be Kind in an Unkind World boundaries self compassion Mar 24, 2025

 

Many of us are feeling drained—not just by the cold days of winter but also by the antagonism and rapid changes in our world. As we step into spring, a season of renewal, I’ve been reflecting on and teaching about self-compassion.

Some of the questions I’ve been asking my students include:

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